Saturday, August 1, 2009

Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

When I was young I always wanted to have purple hair, but my parents would never let me. I always swore I'd be the parent who would let my children express themselves more fully than my parents ever did. Now that my youngest actually wants to have blue hair I'm very divided. I'm leaning towards letting him. Is that OK for him or am I only letting him because I wasn't allowed.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

There's nothing inherently objectionable about it. His peers will think it's awesome-- the only thing you might have to worry about is what other adults will think about you. I suppose to some people, blue hair is just step one on a road littered with rock 'n roll, drugs, and loose women. It sounds like you just want your son to be himself, which should be enough of an explanation for anyone. Let the kid try it, and at the very least I guarantee that every other seven year old in town will think you're THE coolest mom ever.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

You are letting him because you weren't allowed.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

let him do the hair but make it the wash out kind. where it will wash out in 7 days



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

I think that for a scecial occasion youn should let him. Let him on his birthday of something



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

its ok. let him express himself.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

tell him hes to young, schools will not allow it.



wait until hes 15



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Get something that isn't permanent. My son tried that and he had to have his head shaved because it ruined his hair.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Don't let him. Tell him he can do it when he is 13. Hopefully he will forget by then.



You were a child back then, now you are a parent.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

just let him it will grow back



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

After reading your question...I wonder who is really in charge, you, or your son?



YOU are the parent, YOU are the law, YOU set the rules.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

well because you werent alowed, thats all the more reason to! let him dye his hair! but dont spend money on the permanent stuff, get temporary hair dye that will only last a few weeks, like manic panic. you should not restrain him from ANYTHING he wants to do with his look. he is experimenting with his look and expressing himself of who he is. if he doesnt like it, he'll remember not to do it in the future. if he does, then he is a creative talented person at heart! stop him when it comes to things like not studying, but NEVER i repeat NEEEVVVERRR stop him from being who he really is.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Oh My God. Ok, Your son can express himself but BLUE HAIR!? Who is the parent? And he is SEVEN. You are just letting him do it because you are rebelling. No effence but I think It is a horrid thought. Letting your son die his hair BLUE? At the age of SEVEN? No, This is showing your son he can do anything he pleases!!! No no no. But your the parent . . . and one more thing, I don't wish to be rude, I really dont, But it is sad when you get to the point where you have to ask on Yahoo! Answers if you should let your seven year old die his hair blue. Let him express him self in different ways. Like art, or Karate or sports. Draw a picture, but blue hair sounds and is re-dic-u-lous!



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

ATTENTION EVERYONE!!! This is why they need to put birth control in the water supply.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

let him. take plenty of photos. when he acts up when he's older you can blackmail him with the photos.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

My son used to have blue or green tinted spike gel put in his hair when he went to the hair salon. It would be fun for him for a day, and then it would wash out.



Your son could use hair gel like that once or twice a week. Maybe he could have blue hair on Saturdays.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

you should get him blue rinse he can wear it on weekends or something or simi



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

well



1. does his school allow it



2. why does he want to do this so young somone else he knows doing it?



3. that is your decision but please dont let him go perminent



4. i wanted purple and pink hair when i was 13 i think...i wasnt allowed to so i did it anwyas when i was 15....cant tell me no if i did it already



5. let him



6. if people make fun of him he will learn



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

GIRL THERES ENOUGH WEIRD FOLKS AROUND PLZ DONT START HIM OUT DOIN STUFF LIKE THAT B4 U KNOW IT HE WILL B DANCING AROUND DEAD ROSES GET REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Why shouldn't you? I think it's a great idea. I feel that as long as it's not suggestive or inappropriate, there really isn't any reason not to let him do it. If he really wants to do it, buy the kind that washes out. But I believe that it's perfectly fine for him to dye his hair, as long as you say no to things that you are not in his best interest. I don't think this will harm him or make him think he can do anything.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Will the school he attends let him come to school with an "unnatural" hair color?



You could get him that blue hair gel that washes out. I think they have it at Sally's. That way he could have blue hair when he was hanging out and playing, but his natural hair for school.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

if your son is seven he is still learning right from wrong, good from bad, and his interests can change daily depending on what other older people tell him, i think he isn't old enough to chose he wants to make a statement by having blue hair so i my opinion don't let him try. plus it can make you look like a trashy mom.



(wash out hair gell will work)



I'm not saying don't ever let him but wait until he gives you a good enough reason as to why he wants blue hair. and by the time he can think of one he probably wont want it any more.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

no you shouldnt, he's 7!! he doesnt know what he wants yet, hes just a child! if you have to ask that question, you're still a child yourself. grow up and be a parent!!!!



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

Seriously, if you feel divided then maybe you should tell him no because your first instinct is usually right. However, as a liberal individual if I were in you shoes I would sit down with my child, ask him/her why (s)he wants to dye his/her hair, and if (s)he can give me a reasonable and passionate answer I would discuss the reponsibilties of dying his/her hair (such as proper upkeep and possible taunting from peers) and if (s)he seems to understand and is still willing...then why the heck not? I'd go ahead and dye it. Besides, you can take the color away if (s)he acts up; and if (s)he is responsible once he gets tired of it the color can always be cut or just grow out. No harm, no foul. Don't go permanent though. Try to find some washable or semi-permanent products.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

why not? as long as it's not permanent and he doesn't get in trouble with his school. it's not like you're letting him smoke a joint... right?



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

You were a child so of course your parents did not let you make adult decisions............. you should be that adult you are being and continue in your decision. When you were a child you thought as a child so of course you said what you would never do as an adult, that was a child thinking......... Now you are an adult and you can think on the adult level. So your decision should stand firm.......... you need to make the best decision for your child as far as him being in school and the way he is presenting himself. My son always wants to grow his hair out and wear braids. I am a stylist and I don't think this is appropriate for school and for the image he needs to present. I don't want him stereotyped by these so judgemental people. So I tell him in the summer you can do what you like......but when school starts you will have a hair cut. So you can compromise......but some of that gel color that washes out and let him wear it on weekends or holidays or summer vacation. When school starts, he knows the rules.............Keep parenting, remember God put us in charge. You can always say when you get your own home, bills and job, dye your hair whatever color you want...............Good Luck.



Why should'nt I let my son dye his hair blue? He's seven.?

um no he's to young to be making decisions about his hair....especially dyeing his hair blue.....i don't know about where you are from but where im from elementary schools do not allow this its bring on to much attention.....

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